Diary of a Matchmaker
Getting married is tough for the vast majority of Muslims in the West. We know because we’ve been there. My (Zaid) journey spanned nearly nine years. It was filled with rejections and self-doubt. While I (Hiba) didn't know there was a journey to be on in the first place. After we got married we decided to create something different to help single Muslims complete their deen. And so our matchmaking service Halal Match was born.
After a few years of interviewing singles, a friend suggested we journal our stories. We tweaked that idea and turned it into a podcast. In ‘Diary of a Matchmaker’ we’ll take you through this unfamiliar world of matchmaking. We’ll share our stories, experiences, and much more. So say Bismillah and tune in.
Do you have a story to share? Email us at: info@halalmatch.ca
Find us on:
Website: https://halalmatch.ca/
Youtube: https://shorturl.at/ywE8N
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Episodes
50 episodes
Marriage After Divorce: How To Avoid Past Mistakes w/ Sarah Sultan
Starting over after a breakup or divorce? We know it’s not easy, but you’re not alone. In this episode, we sit down with therapist Sarah Sultan to talk about what it really takes to heal, grow, and move forward with confidence.We ...
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Episode 50
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54:53
Muslim Dating Apps: What No One Tells You
If you’ve ever downloaded a Muslim 'dating' app full of hope, only to find yourself drowning in awkward chats, ghosting, and people who don’t seem to know why they’re there… we get it. It’s exhausting.In this episode, we’re talk...
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Episode 49
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19:51
Is Social Media Ruining Our Marriage Expectations?
Today we're spilling the tea on how social media is turning our brains into mush when it comes to marriage expectations. From scrolling through picture-perfect weddings to comparing our own love lives to influencer highlight reels. We’ve all be...
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Episode 48
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27:03
Money Talk: I Earn, He Pays
In this episode, we’re diving into the classic “I have a career, but I’m not paying for anything” dilemma. You know, the one where women are out here making bank, but somehow, it’s still all on the man to cover the bills. We’re keeping it real ...
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Episode 47
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30:02
Shaking Up Muslim Views on Sex and Pleasure w/ Sh. Habeeb Akande
In this episode, we’re joined by Habeeb Akande, a sex educator and Muslim erotologist, to challenge outdated views on intimacy in Islam. He’s here to remind us of the true Islamic teachings on relationships. Think consent, mutual respect, and y...
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Episode 46
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2:03:41
Marriage Leadership: What Men Get Wrong
What does it mean to lead in a marriage? For men, it’s not about being bossy; it’s about responsibility, humility, and knowing when to step up. For women, it’s about recognizing those qualities before you commit.In this episode, we explo...
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Episode 45
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16:59
Marriage Material: Do You Make the Cut?
In this episode, we dive into the awkward, and sometimes painful journey of figuring that out. From emotional maturity to basic life skills (yes, knowing how to cook counts), we’re keeping it real and relatable. Spoiler: If you think ‘romantic’...
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Episode 44
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15:14
Is Your Past Stealing Your Future Marriage? w/ Hana Alasry
In this episode, we dive into the impact of trauma on single Muslims, especially how past experiences shape relationships. A trauma-informed coach joins us; Hana Alasry who shares insights on the importance of hope in healing and how the Prophe...
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Episode 43
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46:53
Qadr vs. Cupid: Who's Really in Charge?
In this episode, we dive into the concept of soulmates; are they just a rom-com myth, or is there something deeper? We explore the idea from an Islamic perspective, discuss the role of qadr (divine decree), and unpack why "waiting for ...
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Episode 42
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17:04
Lessons From The Only Proposal In The Quran
In this episode, we dive into the Quran’s only detailed proposal story—Prophet Musa (AS) and his journey from being a refugee to finding a wife. It’s a story filled with timeless lessons about character, divine timing, and how a simple act of k...
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Episode 41
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21:38
The Haram Police Chronicles
This week we confront the notorious Haram Police! 🚔 From awkward aunties and clapping controversies to MSAs that outdo Islamic rulings themselves, we share our personal run-ins with this self-appointed moral authority. 🎻 Spoiler: ...
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Episode 40
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19:05
Behind the Scenes: How We Turn Profiles Into Matches
In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of our matchmaking process, revealing the immense effort and dedication we pour into finding meaningful, compatible matches for single Muslims. From in-depth discovery calls and personalized assess...
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Episode 39
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23:30
Emotional Intelligence Decoded w/ Imam Navaid Aziz
Unlock the secrets of forming successful relationships as we bring you an exciting conversation with the esteemed Imam Navaid Aziz. Together, we explore the intricate dynamics of emotional intelligence in relationship matching. This episode...
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Episode 38
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35:07
Status Over Substance: The Dark Side of Biodatas
What if a simple piece of paper could dictate the course of your life's most personal decision? Today we unravel the world of Biodatas, questioning whether this 'marriage resume' truly captures the essence of a person or merely reflects outdate...
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Episode 37
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24:30
Lessons From Twenty Years Of Searching w/ Nida K.
In this episode, we join you on the listening side, as Nida K. shares her twenty-year journey searching for marriage. She opens up about the challenges she faced, the lessons she learned, and her hopes for the future. If you're someone on the j...
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Episode 36
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39:20
The Illusion Of Options
Why are so many single Muslims still struggling to find a match despite an ocean of options? Using relatable analogies and personal experiences, we explore why having a plethora of matrimonial avenues doesn’t necessarily make the quest for a pa...
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Episode 35
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15:21
The Man Who Got Us Married w/ Baba Ali
Join us as we welcome Baba Ali, the man who got us married and the founder of Half Our Deen, a platform revolutionizing matchmaking for Muslims. Baba Ali shares his entertaining and insightful journey, challenging societal norms and debunking t...
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Episode 34
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44:46
We Didn't Expect This When We Started
Things we didn't expect when we decided to become matchmakers. Which one surprised you the most?
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Episode 33
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20:16
How To Choose The Right Husband? w/ Zahra Hasan
Zahra Hassan, a seasoned relationship coach with a transformative personal journey, shares her insights on building fulfilling marriages. After navigating the complexities of her divorce and remarriage, Zahra reveals the essential ingredients f...
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Episode 32
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48:32
Should You Marry From Back Home?
In this episode we navigate the challenges of marrying someone from one’s home country, discussing the stigma and drawbacks, such as long-distance hurdles and the intricacies of the immigration processes. We stress the importance of self-awaren...
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Episode 31
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16:19
Let's Talk Sex Education w/ Amirah Zaky
Prepare to revolutionize your understanding of intimacy in marriage with insights from Amirah Zaky, a faith-aligned sex educator and vaginismus expert. Amirah shares her personal struggles, shedding light on the significant gaps in sex educatio...
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Episode 30
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45:49
What's Love Got To Do With It?
Starting with the etymology of the word "Allah" and its intrinsic connection to love in Arabic, this episode delves into whether pre-marital love is acceptable and how it aligns with our deen. We'll navigate through common concerns, offering pr...
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Episode 29
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14:27
I Wish I Could Say This To My Clients
Things we wish we could say to our clients, but find ourselves bound by the lines of courtesy and professionalism. This episode might sound like nothing but insensitive ranting but we promise you it's not. Listen to the end to understand why we...
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Episode 28
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14:53
We Didn't Have Chemistry But..
Our story started with no fireworks but blossomed into a deep connection built on shared values and mutual understanding. Discover how we went from "this is a waste of time" to finding joy in our similarities, and learn why patience and realist...
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Episode 27
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14:44
Early Nikah: Practicality vs. Stigma
Today we share the heartwarming story of one of our quickest matches, now happily engaged but facing family resistance to an early nikah. This couple's story sheds light on the broader challenges many face when trying to harmonize tradition wit...
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Episode 26
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